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It’s debatable. You can be in control of your thoughts and rationalize well, but you can’t always be in control of your emotions. Your emotions are held in your heart, but your mind is what controls it. If you can’t control it at all, you’re going to have problems in whatever relationship you want to be involved in.
Love at first sight can be a simple attraction you may have to the other person. It can also feel as a certain vibe or “gut feeling” that he or she really is the true love of your life. A simple look or flirt from someone is enough for some people to fall in love. This is not good, but is inevitable. Sometimes our emotions take over us blocking all thoughts… we feel so much for someone for such a short time only to find out they are either married, or taken, or are some kind of psycopaths… just kidding! (Well maybe it’s true!).
This is what it really is. Love at first sight is only short-term love. You don’t know much about that person: their real interests, their personality, problems they may have held in from the past (that will eventually come back to haunt them). You really don’t know a person until you’ve spent a couple of months with them, and even then it’s a short amount of time to know if you really “love” that person or not.
Falling in love can be such a beautiful experience, or a very bad one. That’s why you need to take your time to know someone before you jump in all crazy just because you need someone in your life. You need to understand that love at first sight, in my opinion, and with all the facts I’ve mentioned, does not exist. It does not exist because a feeling or emotion that you get from looking at or meeting someone for the first time, is not enough to know the entire truth about them. You need to use your head first (men, the one on top of your neck, mind you…) and filter out who you think is not worth the time. After doing this, you can have your own Romeo & Juliet novel to reflect on your love life, or should I say: the love of your life.
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Do you regret doing something that broke up your relationship with the person you loved most? Do you sometimes wish to go back in time and change the things you did wrong? You start thinking about that special boyfriend or girlfriend, husband or wife… and realize that what you once had, is now free from your grip, free from you, free to do whatever is on their mind. You start to wonder who they’re dating, who they’re going out with, who they’re getting “too friendly” with, or what they might be doing in general. You start to wonder so many things, without realizing that you are thinking too much about them. Without realizing that you are starting to get that feeling back. The feeling that grabbed your attention and started the engine that powered your heart that lead you to the road of happiness.
Until that happiness was shattered, of course. But then it came back, and now you wonder what to do. That is the ultimate question. What is it about this man or woman that is pulling you back, like a powerful magnet, dragging you… back to happiness… or is it just a mere reflection; an illusion, a dream that you wish would come true?
Steps to take are fragile; you may worsen the relationship or improve it. You may get him or her back. Choosing the correct steps is necessary if you want to feel loved again; if you want to love as much as you wish to be loved.
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Respecting your other half is the best thing you can do for a healthy relationship. You don’t want your partner to think that you are taking advantage of him or her; it’s the worst thing they can ever think of so you need to avoid it at all times. The only way to accomplish this is by being completely honest and sincere. There are different ways of approaching different types of conflict between the two of you. For example, there may be times when your partner states his/her opinion on a certain topic, and you don’t necessarily agree with it. A good way to approach it is to very nicely state YOUR opinion first and say that you are not 100% right as it is only an opinion—then you can come up with a joint solution or opinion where both of you would agree.
This also helps with communication in the relationship. You can have very nice and lengthy conversations with your other half, which means that both of you are coping and getting to know each other very well. No matter how long you’ve been in the relationship, respect and communication are two key traits that both of you have to possess in order to be in a healthy relationship.
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Starting to date can be a time-consuming process. You need to be able to devote time for your potential partner so that he or she does not move away from you. The first step to the process is figuring your time constraints, and availability. You also need to know what you are looking for. If all you are looking for is a sexual relationship, and your potential partner wants more of a romantic or long-term relationship then it’s simply not going to work. Take the opportunity to really get to know your date, especially their time availability. If he or she works when you are free, and vice-versa, there’s really no time for you guys to get to know each other. Be honest, lies only come back and haunt you. You can lie a thousand different ways, but the truth will always prevail.
So now that we have the confidence wrapped around your neck ready to tickle you until you cry if you don’t feel confident enough to talk to your crush, we can start working on other styles or just an overall new look. Dress as you fit to be dressed; don’t try to be someone you’re not. Just stop to think for a second what it is that makes you who YOU are, and use different clothes and looks to symbolize yourself. Try to stay up to date with styles, or make your own and be UNIQUE. Potential partners will really notice that uniqueness you radiate, and will possibly walk up to you and not vice-versa.
Truth of the matter is if you want a nice looking date, he or she is most likely looking for the same. So get your butt of the couch and start going to the gym to tone up or bulk up and lose that extra weight you may not like. Read health magazines and start eating healthy; start a diet. If you’re having problems finding a date now, a new style might suit you, so get your hair cut or get a new look. If I may warn you, this will not guarantee you a date (there are other factors to consider), but trust me when I say that you will feel a lot more comfortable talking to others, and your confidence will start to build up.
Let’s first look at some common relationship problems and why many romantic partnerships do not work out.
As with material possessions or professional achievements, relationships give our ego a method by which to identify who we are to the outside world. The problem is that we attach so much of our identity to the external appearance of our relationships that we lose touch with the parts of ourselves that are wise and conscious. The attachment to this false identity leads to a feeling of desperation rather than fulfillment. After all, without the relationship, or the job, or whichever other false identity we have chosen, who would we be? Besides the ego identification, it’s easy to develop a dependency on companionship. That independent person that we once were starts to evaporate. Our mind becomes fogged and as our self-identification begins to attach itself to the other person, unconsciously or consciously, we become afraid to lose that person. We become dependent on that person and fearful of loneliness. Out of our emotional insecurities, we start to become needy and to seek out validation from our partner. So, instead of focusing on the celebration of love and partnership, it becomes a game of how to protect ourselves from loss.
Out of a desire to avoid appearing needy and out of a fear of losing our partner, we start to filter what we say. In doing so, we do not communicate our needs clearly, openly or bravely. We somehow become convinced that our partner will magically know what to do to fulfill our needs. When our needs are not met, we secretly blame the other person and begin to resent them. When we are unhappy, our partner will pick up on the cues, and in turn, secretly resent us, thus starting a vicious cycle in the silent destruction of a romantic partnership. So much of what needed to be said was not said, and bad feelings are bottled up and start to accumulate for both parties. Have you ever had a friend come to you and complain about all of the things they are unhappy about with their partner? Those are the kinds of things they should be telling their partner, if they actually want a change. Worse yet is when one partner openly communicates their needs only to find that the other party is simply not listening, or does not fully acknowledge what was said, or makes them feel guilty for having those needs.
Deep down, we are all really good people. But this doesn’t mean that any combination of two good people will make a good partnership. There is such thing as a bad fit, and it is okay to admit it. The best fits are ones where the most important values for both people are met. They must have life goals that align with one another and have a mutual attraction, understanding, and level of respect for each other. Both people must be committed to making the partnership their top priority. Sometimes, even when we realize that our relationship isn’t a good fit, we justify staying in it with what seem like logical reasons. We may feel that we won’t find another person who accepts and loves us as much as the current partner. Or we may be afraid to be alone, so we simply settle by default. Each time we are reminded of the bad fit, we brush it under the rug and distract ourselves with some other thought. We may feel that we are doing a service to the other person by staying in the relationship, but in reality, we are hurting them by not being honest with them and ourselves. And we are accumulating bad feelings and bad energy in our inner space.
Source: http://thinksimplenow.com/relationships/how-to-find-true-love/
The meaning of perfection is different for different people. It could so happen that you may not like someone for some reason while someone else may love the same person for the very same reason.
This is something natural as we all have our own penchants in life. Likewise getting to know someone and acknowledging that someone to be your perfect date depends highly on your own choice, taste as well as thinking.
When it comes to evaluating someone, there could be many things that we may like and many that we may dislike. Many people have a weird habit of listing down characteristics that they would like in their ideal date. On the basis of these traits they would approach the person. For instance a person may have countless useful traits however, if that person is not humorous then you may want to discard that person and look for someone else.
For people who are really choosy, finding an ideal date would be a hard nut to crack. The best solution would be, try to comprise with a few things and/or overlook them. Further, try to rate yourself and see if you have all the necessary traits that a person would look for.
You may be astonished to find out that even you are not standing where you thought you may be. You could be looking for an ideal dating partner but are you also an ideal match? So, the best thing to do is to list places where you actually lack and find ways of improving them.
An ideal suggestion would be that rather than finding a partner, who is perfect why not try finding someone who can really make you happy! You require a dating partner who can really understand you and give you a great time that you have been longing for all this time. Remember, no one in this entire world is perfect and compromises have to be made at sometime or another if you are seriously looking for a dating partner.
Patience is a virtue hence you should not be in a hurry while looking for an ideal dating partner. Be tranquil and try to observe the attitude the other person holds. If everything is fine and the person whom you wish to date has all the necessary traits that you are looking out for then go for it. At the same time make sure that your dating partner understands your emotions and feelings and acts in a manner most pleasing to you.
There is no hidden formula in making a great and everlasting relationship. You can only establish a great relationship with your dating partner if you trust him or her. The bottom line is that try not to search for perfection in your partner, rather look for someone who is understanding and can respect your feelings from the heart.
Source: http://rodrigorehn.articlesbase.com/dating-articles/tips-on-how-to-find-a-perfect-date-442550.html
CT Local Singles is a blog created for the end-user to view, reply, and discuss the love issues that appear as blog posts. It is rather important that if we are looking for love, that we follow certain "suggestions." Some people have trouble finding the right person, but others can get it done just right by a simple look into the eyes. This website will help you in providing you with information and tips in order to improve the way you approach the love of your life.